Popular singer and actress IU has candidly discussed her four-year relationship with actor Lee Jong-suk, emphasizing that true love transcends possessiveness and unmet expectations.
Emotional Revelation on ‘Lee Ji-geum’
In the May 12 episode of the YouTube channel ‘Lee Ji-geum,’ IU teared up while sharing insights from a dramatic scene titled ‘This week’s secret hideout tears… behind the 21-year-old big fan.’
During the scene, IU’s character encounters a reborn version of her devoted fan, Seong Hye-joo. Overwhelmed by intense emotions tied to past regrets, IU delivers a straightforward message that dispels lingering doubts.
Hye-joo, shedding tears, clings tightly and declares, ‘I can resolve my own regrets. Please forgive me.’ IU interprets this not as simple affection but as profound love for one’s inner self.
IU’s Philosophy on Love
Reflecting on the moment, IU states, ‘Hye-joo even forgave her own emotions. Love means forgiving possessiveness too. True completeness demands such love.’
She adds, ‘Love surpasses expectations and remains even more endearing. It’s not about demanding fulfillment from expectations.’
When asked whether this reflects her philosophy or the character’s, IU clarifies, ‘It’s my philosophy. Hye-joo hasn’t fully experienced love, so it aligns closely.’ She explains that embracing someone linked to an ex stems from deep emotion, a relatable human response beyond mere curiosity.
In a prior ‘Lee Ji-geum – Mini Palette’ segment, IU engaged with her 21-year-old devoted fans, probing, ‘Is that truly love?’ She asserts, ‘Genuine love involves generous giving without tallying affections.’
Couple’s Journey Since 2022
IU and Lee Jong-suk first confirmed their relationship in October 2022 before going public in December. The pair now openly shares everyday moments and social activities. Lee Jong-suk frequently directs IU’s concerts, showcasing their strong partnership.
