Kim Jung-tae’s eldest son, who has Asperger’s syndrome, expressed a strong desire to relocate to the United States during a recent family discussion. He highlighted his preference for English as more comfortable and declared plans for greater independence.
Family Concerns Over Lifestyle Choices
The son revealed his wish to attend more parties while living abroad. Addressing his noticeably slender frame, Kim Jung-tae urged caution, stating, “Don’t live a party lifestyle like celebrities who barely eat.” The son responded firmly, “I don’t go to parties. I lack the money anyway. I just want to live an honest life.”
Kim Jung-tae noted the challenges, saying, “You can’t have more than one truly honest friend. But you meet kids every day.”
Coding Talent and Educational Ambitions
The son excels as a software expert, actively teaching coding. Kim Jung-tae detailed his journey: “He focused on coding after dropping out of high school in his second year. Now, he attends a top high school as a software master and aspires to the same at a U.S. arts university after witnessing similar programs there.”
Emphasizing U.S. opportunities, the son explained, “Schools there offer more coding exposure. Games make it fun for kids, so they learn effortlessly.” He conveyed optimism: “Even if routine alone, I can do well since it’s the same as judging direction with others.”
Questioning his arts pivot, Kim Jung-tae probed further. The son admitted, “Alone, it’s just routine, so I worry if I can handle it myself.” Kim Jung-tae called it a “direct hit” and used the moment to adjust his mindset with peers.
Navigating Social Challenges
During a mock conflict resolution, the son suggested, “Next time, I’ll handle it myself. If shy, I’ll say I’m from Jeju.” Kim Jung-tae affirmed, “That’s exactly right for school. Doing well socially matters, and feeling half-right is positive.”
Preferring U.S. colleges, the son observed, “More people speak English there, so fewer corrections needed. It’s a good feeling.” Kim Jung-tae expressed satisfaction with the growth.
Emotionally, the son reflected, “I’m going to the U.S., but not because Dad embarrasses me.” He refuted fears, adding, “It’s not that I’m scared to go.” Yet, he questioned earnestly, “But can I just stay home?”
