Forged of Netflix courting actuality present “My Korean Boyfriend” / Courtesy of Netflix
First, let me congratulate all of you for having the braveness to come back all the way in which to Korea seeking a real-life Okay-drama romance and for placing your personal lives on public show on Netflix.
I loved watching all eight episodes. Not solely was the present entertaining, it was additionally thought-provoking, prompting me to mirror on love, cultural variations and romance between folks from totally different cultural backgrounds.
Past the relationships, the present supplied a possibility to rediscover the fantastic thing about my residence metropolis, Seoul. The beautiful views from cafés, the nocturnal gentle present alongside the Han River, the structure of Dongdaemun Design Plaza, the cherry blossom-lined streets of Yeouido and Bukchon Hanok Village had been all very lovely. I might advocate the present to anybody who needs a glimpse of Seoul earlier than visiting.
Morena, proper, in a scene from “My Korean Boyfriend” / Captured from Netflix
To Morena:
Congratulations in your marriage to Se-woong. Whereas it got here as a little bit of a shock, the 2 of you regarded lovely collectively, and I hope you’ll construct a contented household. What stood out most to me about you was the belief you positioned in Se-woong, even throughout moments of doubt.
Receiving feedback about your clothes from a future mother-in-law isn’t nice. Neither is discovering that your fiancé hadn’t informed his household in regards to the marriage proposal. I’m positive Se-woong was deeply grateful to your persistence and assist throughout that point.
Relationships with mothers-in-law are sometimes difficult in Korea. The perfect method is often to take care of a little bit of distance whereas remaining well mannered always — adhering to a extra conservative costume code is commonly thought of a part of that politeness. As for the scene wherein Se-woong cried whereas studying your letter to his mom, I noticed it as an indication of the deep emotional bond between mom and son. It had nothing to do with you.
Luanny, left, in a scene from “My Korean Boyfriend” / Captured from Netflix
To Luanny:
I’ve typically questioned what occurred between you and Si-won after the present ended. To be trustworthy, I needed you had gone your separate methods a lot earlier. Even after assembly his mom and clearing up the problem of your daughter from a earlier relationship, the prospects with Si-won didn’t enhance — fairly the alternative.
Somewhat than taking duty himself, he allowed the state of affairs to tug on to the purpose the place you needed to contact his mom and clarify all the pieces. On high of that, he had unresolved monetary points. Okay-dramas could also be romantic, however actuality can’t be prevented. I’m not saying cash is all the pieces, nevertheless it does matter. As you mentioned on the present, you have already got challenges of your personal — you don’t want an extra burden. You deserve a associate who can assist you and stand by you thru life’s difficulties.
Mariana, proper, in a scene from “My Korean Boyfriend” / Captured from Netflix
To Mariana:
It should have been torture to maintain questioning when Danny would lastly kiss you. I felt that frustration. However that is typically how relationships with Koreans unfold — they don’t rush into bodily affection early on; it often takes time.
That mentioned, what I additionally sensed in Danny was uncertainty. He clearly favored you, however he didn’t appear assured about dealing with a long-distance relationship. That will clarify why he didn’t reply your name on the airport — and why, at occasions, he got here throughout extra like a “tour information” than a romantic associate throughout your dates.
Katy, proper, in a scene from “My Korean Boyfriend” / Captured from Netflix
To Katy:
I actually appreciated the way you took the initiative and selected to finish your relationship with Jack. Your decisiveness was refreshing. The 2 of you had little or no in frequent, and it was clear early on. The second man you met appeared way more suitable with you, and I seen his thoughtfulness — particularly when he talked about how he behaves when he’s in love.
Camila in a scene from “My Korean Boyfriend” / Captured from Netflix
To Camila:
At first, I didn’t fairly perceive why you had joined the courting present. However because the episodes progressed, I started to see issues extra clearly. I’m glad you had been ready to make use of this journey to higher perceive your self and your Korean household roots. I hope you will forgive your mom and transfer on to the following chapter of your life.
